Gale Cady (Williams)
Well put, Jan Burch Campbell. :-) Your input on the late date in October is right on the money; when we do have color in the fall, it's usually gone by the end of the month.
I do think that if class members truly want to include all alumni, that assuming that people can afford $100 donations or $50 donations is rather presumptious. Not all of us are doing well, whether in retirement or not.
Additionally, most of us don't play golf. At our projected age of 68, many of us may not be playing any sport at all. ( I am doing well to take a walk every day, and to use my at-home workout accessories!) Certainly, if people want to get together and plan to play golf, good for you, but I don't see that as part of the reunion. That is something that Facebook group events are perfectly suited to creating. Anyone can create a group event who has a Facebook account; this is how I plan my family reunions for the Cady clan.
My input on this is that the primary, and really ONLY, need is for a one night event that takes place in a big space that will allow us to freely sit and move around, in order to sit and visit with one another, with little to no planned activities, other than to just provide us the space for us to talk to one another. What the meal is, is of little importance to me, but the cost needs to be in the $30 area for me ( and I'm sure many others) to be affordable. Everything else is superfluous.
My needs grow simpler every year; we don't need keepsakes other than a program with all of our names in it, and the food is actually only the secondary aspect; the primary need is the opportunity to visit and catch up. I think a noisy bar is not a good place to do that.
To continue on in what is probably an unpopular opinion, I do not drink (for those of you who do, that's fine, I'm not judging you). I take medicines that prohibit alcohol, and I think many of us at our age are in a similar situation. I won't be attending any event that takes place in a bar, because even if I can buy a non-alcoholic drink, which of course I can, I think bars are too noisy and chaotic to allow talking to people and catching up. I know that our class has always had a large component of heavy drinkers, and for those of you who drink, party on! But let's have you do that on your own, in a separate event.
I think one event in a big space with a buffet would be a fine choice.
For whatever it matters, that's my opinion.
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